Simon At 8 Months

 

"Cats randomly refuse to follow orders, to prove they can."

~Llona Andrews

Magic Strikes

That was my little puffball, Simon, 8 months and one day ago. He is growing into quite a beauty, don't you think? Quite the young man. My goodness, time has gone by so fast. I am so glad we brought him into our life! I am so glad that his momma gave birth right next door, so that we could once again, have the sounds of bells running through the house. When Tyler came along, life only got better! Something I didn't even know was possible! Now, however, Joey has a case of the Green-eyed Monster, so we are navigating that, but I know we will work it out, all of us, together, as a family.

Simon, February 6th, 2026

Heart Of Glass

 

"Where words leave off, music begins."

~Heine

I'm tired, but music gives me life. This is music from my era. Say what you want about music from the 1980's but to we who grew up in that time, it's sweet relief. I guess all generations say that. But the emotion is as timeless as the music!

Expect to see more videos, as we navigate the times we find ourselves in!

Pray For Nancy Guthrie

 

I don't know what quote would go with this post. I don't want to get wordy, except to say, Nancy Guthrie is missing, feared kidnapped or abducted, there is evidence of such, and she needs to be brought home. Whoever you are, wherever you are, please, let her go! Enough already!

Nancy, I am praying that the Lord touches you, and eases your pain. I pray that the Lord will lead you home to your family soon.

The world is waiting for you.

Read The New York Times Article Here.

Ellipsis Movie Of The Week... Mr. Wrong

Tagline...

"He loved her from afar... not far enough!"

Mr. Wrong

Again, I gravitate toward a nonsensical comedy. But in my own defense I found it truly funny, cute in it's own way, and co-stars Bill Pullman, who I have lusted after for 40 years, because not only is he adorable, but he makes me laugh... and that vague, I'm so lost, smile that makes me want to take him by the hand and help him find his way home. How a smile can be both goofy and devastatingly sexy at the same time, I will never know! The story is funny, it's a typical 80's comedy, but it's good for a kick back laugh. The cast is excellent. So why not?

 Watch the funny movie, drool, laugh, repeat!

It's Love All Over Again

 

"Chocolate introduced me to Heaven."

~Anthony T. Hincks

Recently, I found out that not only am I allergic to pecans, I am allergic to almonds as well. I found out by way of a Hershey's with Almonds bar. UGH, a negative chocolate encounter, who needs that? I should cut back on my chocolate consumption anyway, but seriously, I am on my last nerve about things. But at the end of the day, sigh, chocolate cures a lot of evil. You already know about Trump, but now the car broke down, and who the HELL knows when the part to fix it, will arrive. It's already been 5 days. That means no birding, which is the thing that keeps me sane! And lets not forget the frequent fog of January! One day, not too long ago, I ate a half a bag on the plain Hershey's kisses, but only to balance the anger, sadness, bewilderment, and you get the idea, you probably felt it all too. And then the car took a dump!

I grabbed a bag of Hershey Kisses with Almonds, and ate a few fistfuls. A short time later, I broke out in hives. My body itched to a silly degree, but I survived, and now I know! But there was always the plain kisses, and because I now had an additional reason to bury my feelings in a bag of chocolate, I dug in with both hands. And I'm NOT SORRY! But funny thing, I hadn't had Hershey's plain chocolate in years. Previously when I indulged, it was usually Sees Candies. But unfortunately, Sees has became really expensive in the last few years, and even more expensive since Trump. Hershey's has seen a price hike as well! I can't believe how much a candy bar costs! Anyway, I forgot how amazingly delicious just a bit of their plain chocolate was! And now it's a tiny obsession? Or love rekindled? Who knows?

 I promise to try to cut back on. Seriously, I can stop anytime I want.

I found this recipe for, German Chocolate Cake, on the Hershey's website.

 It looks delicious! I think I'll try it!

Oops! 

Listen To Don

On Friday, January 30th, 2026, Don Lemon was among other journalists arrested by the Trump DOJ, for his coverage of the protest last Sunday, at a church in Minnesota. He was there as a journalist! Here is his response to this situation and his arrest. Trump sent a huge threat to all of us with this arrest. If this is allowed to stand, we are all in grave danger! We need free speech. We need a free press. We need the 1st Amendment to stand! Stop asking if we are sliding toward Fascism. Make, NO MISTAKE, we are already living in a Fascist state!

 I stand with Don Lemon!

We must listen to Don!

Listen To The Women

"When you grow up female, danger is everywhere."

~Virginia Roberts Giuffre

Nobody's Girl: A Memoir Of Surviving Abuse And Fighting For Justice

Yesterday, 3 million additional documents of the Epstein Files were released, only about half of the remaining files. And with that, the Department of Justice will no longer release any additional files. The following spreadsheets were initially released, then a short time later pulled from release. The obstruction and deception continues. Warning, the following is more than a little disturbing.

Listen To The Sound Of Silence

 

"When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty."

~Thomas Jefferson

Listen To The Reviews

 

"Here we go again!"

~Melania Trump

Melania 

Yes, Melania, here we go again. Only its all worse this time."

This is not my usual lighthearted movie suggestion. No. This is a review and suggestion by the professional reviewers. Apparently this $75 million film is exactly what it seemed to be, a shallow, thoughtless, self promoting poser of an out of touch first lady. But if you enjoy fashion, that most folks can never afford to purchase, especially in this time, then this movie is for you! 

As for me, I don't like nor respect her. So, it's a hard pass for me!

But here is a trailer for you.

Read the article at Yahoo Entertainment

Listen To Bruce

Listen To Jimmy

 

"When the rabbit screams, the FOX comes runnin' but not to help."

~Thomas Harris

The Silence Of The Lambs

I'm exhausted, and really, what more could I possibly add?

Ellipsis Movie Of The Week... Dan In Real Life

 

"You know that feeling in your heart? When you heart is just pounding, like it's actually outside your ribs? Exposed but vulnerable and awful, and heartsick, and alive, all at the same time.

~Dan Burns ( Steve Carell )

Dan In Real Life

I seem to be gravitating to movies about different kinds of love. Which is okay, I guess, but it's just that I am such a lucky person to have found all kinds of love with my husband, and that a rare thing. I think about it more as well, because we are living through such dark, desperate times. So bare with me, I am encouraging myself to branch out and enjoy a larger genre than rom-coms. But to be fair, this is a new movie for me, so yea!

As for, Dan In Real Life, I enjoyed that it dealt with the sometimes messiness of relationships. Lovers, Love at first sighters, brothers and sisters, and of course, our parents. Make no mistake, while it might seem like a comedy from the trailers, it's a dramady, but a well balanced one. It's a good watch. A pleasant one. A quiet movie that's needed right now. But I have to confess, I have loved every movie Steve Carell has every done, so I might be a wee bit impartial.

Thoughts And Prayers For The American Gestapo

 

"We cannot violence by blaming it's victims. We are in a culture of victim blaming and victim shaming, where the wounded are questioned more than the more then the one's who wounded them, because responsibility scares a society built on denial."

~Carson Anekeya

Sigh.

Say His Name... Alex Jeffrey Pretti

One Headline... Two Different Days

 I don't have a witty quotes for today. I am tired, brokenhearted and really sad. And I admit I found it surreal that the New York Times had the same headline for, Saturday, and Sunday. Forgive me if this is a less than perfect post. History will remember this time, and will not look kindly on these assholes. Say his name, Alex Jeffrey Pretti. He was an ICU nurse at the V.A. hospital, in Minnesota. He was a son. And he was so much more, including a hero, for trying to save a woman who had been shoved to the ground by ICE agents.

 He was the same age as Renee, Nicole Good... 37.

Renee Nicole Good

Murdered by ICE

 January 7th, 2025

Alex Jeffrey Pretti

Murdered By ICE

January 24th, 2026

How many more will have to die, at the hands of the Trump Administration?

The stupidity speaks for itself. Don't let yourself be Gaslighted.

RIP

 Alex Jeffrey Pretti

Woodbridge Road In The Fog

 "Lots of people go mad in January. Not as many as in May, of Course. Or June. But January is your third most common month for madness."

~Karen Joy Fowler

Sarah Canary

Yesterday, in a fit of I can't take Trump's stupidity anymore, I asked hubby if he wanted to take a ride in the fog, to look for birds. We thought it over a bit, and decided to head to Staten Island, but as we went farther and farther down the freeway, the thicker the fog got, so we changed our minds, and settled for Woodbridge road. It was a good plan.

The fog was beautiful.

Spooky Possibilities

 

"The ghost didn't want to scare her, it wanted to sit, to remember. To listen."

~Arabella Sveinsdottir

The Roof Was Never Empty: A Haunting Metaphysical Horror About Family Secrets,

 Doppelgangers And The Roof That Watches

It's January. It's Winter. And it if those two things are true, then wherever you are, it might just be a little gloomy. For me it's been a dense fog alert, from the National Weather Service, every day since the month began. Thick, pea soup fog, that doesn't burn off until past noon, making impossible to take one of our long birding trips to Bodega Bay, or even Monterey. San Francisco is also a no go, I hate driving to the city in the fog. So, to pull myself out of the gloominess, I am watching a movie about a ghost that I haven't seen before. From 1970, The House That Wouldn't Die. I guess I am lonely for October, Autumn, and all the deliciously scary stuff that makes me feel all warm and cozy. This movie looks like it has real spooky possibilities!

The Testimony Of Special Counsel Jack Smith

 

"Almost any sect, cult or religion will legislate it's creed into law, if it acquires the power to do so."

~Robert A. Heinlein

Will you be there? I plan to set the time of this post at 1:00 am PT, or close to that time, which means his testimony is a mere hours away. It's a crazy ride the last several days and I expect today will be no different. I don't know if I want to stay up, 7:00 am will come soon, or if I want to get at least a little sleep and face it refreshed and ready to deal with the FRESH HELL that today will probably end up being. Shrug... don't know, I will get back to you on it. 

But for right now...

Again, I ask...

Will you be there?

Good, bad or otherwise, it's history.

Personally, as you might guess, I can't look away.

Blarfenglarb

 "My mother always used to say, the older you get, the better you get.

 Unless you're a banana."

~Betty White

I'm feeling a little less than interesting, enthusiastic, or particularly witty. I am not feeling especially creative or energetic. I am feeling... ugh... just don't wanna. But since I am trying my best to not give up, and hide in the corner under some heavy piece of furniture, which I don't own anyway, I mostly open IKEA stuff, which is sturdy, but not heavy, I thought some humor would be really good. So, here is one of my favorite SNL sketches, which featured, Betty White. I sure do miss her, she was absolutely amazing.

 A true lady.

Ellipsis Movie Of The Week... Bugonia

 

"I don't get my news from the news."

~Teddy (Jesse Plemons)

Bugonia

I have decided to ease back on all the movies I tend to watch over and over because the ease me into a state of anticipated bliss, in other words, my happy place. I am committing, like a New Year's resolution, to watch at least one movie a week that I have never seen. I decided to begin with, Bugonia. It's from 2025, and that's a good thing, because I usually immerse myself in movies from past eras, where I feel safe. Climbing into this movie, did not make me feel safe, and ooh boy, that was a good thing. 

There is so much to unpack in this film. Conspiracy theories, corporate greed, isolationism, environmental issues, and yes, whether or not there are alien overlords watching over us, but not necessarily in our best interests. Many different sides, opinions and perspectives will converge, so hold onto your hats, as it's quite a ride. If you are like me, you will change your mind about the issues and psychological mind bending as you take it all in. Critical thinking. In the end, you will feel... well... better about the lessons learned, because it's makes you consider where you stand. After yesterday, or the day before, will you see things differently?

Watch it! Considering the mind bending times we are living in, where are we, how did we get here, and is there a way out, or are we too confused to really pay attention to all the signs that say... watch and listen and take a stand!

 Tinfoil hats not required!

Visit IMBD for the trailer's.

My Smooth Jazz Black Cat With Pink Ears

 

"It's difficult to catch a black cat in a dark room especially, if it isn't there."

~Chinese Proverb

Black cats are sometimes considered bad luck. Sometimes they are thought to be witches in disguise. And incantations of evil. No. That's just wrong on so many levels, but humans being humans, just have to have something blame their failures on. Superstitions like that, endanger these amazing animals, every year around Halloween. Cosplay dipshits like to capture black cats, and harm them as a sacrifice to appease whoever or whatever "god" they worship. I know it to be true, because my veterinarian's nurse described what has been seen. One day, last summer, she found a litter of kittens in her yard, so she brought them to the doctor's office, to hopefully find them good homes. She loved my Tyler in particular, and gave him as much attention as possible. She worried he wouldn't find a loving home, before Halloween, but I took one look at this funny, gorgeous, very loving little cat, and it was all over, I loved him. He had me at hello. So, we took 24 hours to consider it, and by the time we got home, we knew we had a new son.

He has pink ears. How funny is that? PINK EARS! In certain lighting they appear almost opalescent! Tyler has a lot of the same qualities of my last black cat, Hendrix. Tyler loves music, especially smooth jazz. He loves deeply, and when he wants a hug, he pushes his whole body into mine with all the weight in his body! He grooms my hubby, he checks on his brothers if anything is wrong. He loves stuffed animals and he can make a toy out of anything. Now what can be wrong with that! He has white ears in the front, and two bald spots over his eyes. He's also wily. He is quite the magpie. He steals things. LOL. But he also finds things that I thought I had lost forever! He is unique, and I am so lucky that he chose to love me. Cat's don't have to love you, and they will remind you of that from time to time! I think of my sweet Hendrix a lot, but Tyler was never meant to take his place, which is good, because I love getting to know Tyler for who he is, while remember the love I had with Hendrix.

So that's my Tyler. We have owned him since late August of 2025,

 and the future with him seems like the brightest of light, in all the worldly darkness.